We begin to love their children even before their birth. Imagine what will become parents, read the smart log and listen to the advice of experienced moms. When the baby is born, the love for him increases many times. And in return we expect the same. They say that love is never too much. And here it happens. How not to “perlubie” of the child and not to spoil the excessive love of the little man?
It happens that the child becomes the raison d’être of his parents. To some extent it should be, after all, giving birth to the baby, you have taken responsibility for his life and destiny. He is a bad parent who care for their duties, impulsive in matters of education and relies on others or nature: “something will grow!”.
Yes only has dire consequences, and at the other extreme sacrifice. The mother puts on the family altar their lives, sacrifice their children’s interests. Her motives are noble: “My child needs to have everything that wasn’t from me, I will put as much of his love and attention, so he was happy.” But, a mother’s sacrifice is the basis of the neurotic state of deep depression and inability to make right accents.
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Divorce with children is always very tragic. Not always ready for it parents. But for children in General, divorce «sounds» like thunder from a clear sky… They don — egocentric, the whole world revolve around them alone and suddenly… all permanent and eternal crumbling…
The parents are no longer together. The child is very difficult to understand. How? Why? Issues not on age and experience of the baby…
Consequences of divorce for children
And in this hectic and whirlwind of divorce, the child decides that it’s his fault. He didn’t listen, he broke up his pants, he cried a lot and asked for a new toy…
Naive? Of course! But it is for our adult, grown wise life of the mind, and the baby my little brain could think. Especially if, God forbid, any of these events very «successfully» coincided with the departure of one parent (most often, of course, the Pope).
Older children may be angry at everyone and everything, to show regressive reactions, answer back to both parents, to be offended. Thus, they are taking revenge.
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Woman — this is the same man, but with a different body structure? Are there any major differences between a man and a woman . What they are called? Why attempt to equate both sexes fail?
Yes, this theme on my blog has always caused a lot of controversy. I tried to compromise, long tossed from one position to another… somehow even wrote that in a woman just has to be in moderation… But now will voice an opinion, backed up by simple human logic. Why they say that women’s nature — something special? Is it just tradition, and tales of the study some psychologists? What are the main differences between a man and a woman?
The woman is different from men not only on the structure of certain organs. The whole essence of the woman — not the same as in men. And due to this the structure of some organs and the purpose of women who declared by nature.
Often hear such phrases as: «the Only difference between the woman from the man — the ability to give birth. A woman gives birth, the man — no. That’s all the difference. Otherwise we are the same people. All differences between the sexes — the imposed stereotypes, attitudes, outdated traditions».
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