It is no secret that in the life of the younger generation there is the temptation to drink or smoke. And this shouldn’t surprise – a considerable income from sales of liquor and tobacco products nowadays bear children. The reasons for such action can be many:
– the desire to “appear” in front of their peers;
– unwillingness to be the black sheep in the eyes of peers;
– imitation of their elders.
And that’s not all.
In the lives of youth nicotine and alcohol is so deeply ingrained that already to try, no need to find yourself a bad company. Moreover, these addictions may be present in the lives of perfectly normal children from affluent families. The question is: what motivates them to do this?
And after all, it would seem that all parents (even the most irresponsible) conduct lectures to the child about the dangers of Smoking and alcohol consumption. However, their children do not argue and agree with what was said. However, when in the noisy company, at a raging party night or just on the bench, they were asked to try the “more experienced” buddies, words of parents go somewhere in the background.
It remains to ask ourselves about whether were prevention of bad habits to your child. Talk more about that.
Prevention of harmful habits
Teach your son to put into words what he feels. The kid can scream in frustration, to hide from embarrassment, biting excitement and crying from fear. Explain to him that it is emotions that tell the body how to behave. Show him other people who feel the same, but Express their emotions differently. Talk with your child about your own emotions. When he one day will grow, you will know the difference between rage and embarrassment, disappointment and grief, and learn to cope with their emotions and Express them intelligently, without shame and without guilt.
Papa will teach him the most important things. If you let dad be immersed in the process of raising a child from the very beginning, ever the son formed the correct opinion: his dad knows EVERYTHING. You will always be loved by his mother, but daddy for boy is a special man who knows the answers to all the questions.Make it so that the boy talked more in men’s element! If he had little contact with his father, he goes to training or in groups where the teacher is male.
Read to him and with him. Children become readers on the lap of their parents. The child needs to see that you also read. Tell him about what you read. About their favorite books and characters. Explain to him why it is so important to read books. And read together and then Continue reading
Parental responsibility for the improper upbringing of children
The question in this case concerns the termination of parental rights, which is:
first of all, aims to protect the health and psyche of the child and to create normal conditions for life;
is family legal sanction, measure legal liability for their public-harmful behavior, i.e. punitive function. Therefore, termination of parental rights applies only in case of culpable behaviour of the parents;
in addition, aim to prevent similar violations in other families, i.e. has preventive value.
The law sets out an exhaustive list of situations where parents may be deprived of parental rights.
If parents shirk parental responsibilities. The speech in this case goes about the nonperformance of the activities that parents are required to do so by law, in particular about the lack of attention, care. Evasion parenting is also considered willful refusal to pay child support (though very systematic failure to pay child support without good reason), failure to stay with the child.
In that case, if parents without good reason, refuse to take their child home from the hospital or other health institutions, Continue reading