L. Ron Hubbard
(source “Miracles for Breakfast” Ruth Minshull, p. 10)
What are the fears of the child. Where do they come from? How do we, parents, when different stages of a child’s life the nature of children’s fears are different. This is due to the child transitions to a higher level in its development. And, anyway, there is quite a capable system enabling the parent to be the surest method to respond to changes in the child’s behavior. This system is based primarily on typical age-related changes in children.
I want first of all to say about fear of children before, so they can stay simply ALONE WITH THEIR EXPERIENCES. This is the greatest and hardest burden for the baby. and for a teenager. A parent can learn about it, it started to communicate with the child about it. But all the drama is that it puts adults in a deadlock. Why? Because we mistakenly believe our role is to protect the child by simple exclusion fear of his life. However, does it help? Here is one story – a conversation Katie (she’s four years old) and her mom in the dressing room dance Studio:
Kate: Mom, let’s get going. There in the corner, you may receive a bogeyman.
(girl pointing finger in a far dark corner of the room)
Mom: Well, what’s the bogeyman! Barmalei does not happen. He only lives in a fairy tale.
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The child is not lying – he really begins to feel ill at the very moment when it is necessary to go to study Photo: Vadim SISTEMININ
Psychologists have a term – “syndrome 7 September”. This is when a child, happily waiting for the start of school for half a summer, just a week of practice begins to sulk and complain about feeling unwell.
Unfortunately this is the norm for most first graders. Yes and older children sometimes this syndrome covers.
In this way children react to stress from the beginning of the lessons. The child is not lying – he really begins to feel ill at the very moment when you have to go to school or to do homework. But should stay at home or take toys like all the sickness here goes!
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