L. Ron Hubbard
(source “Miracles for Breakfast” Ruth Minshull, p. 10)
What are the fears of the child. Where do they come from? How do we, parents, when different stages of a child’s life the nature of children’s fears are different. This is due to the child transitions to a higher level in its development. And, anyway, there is quite a capable system enabling the parent to be the surest method to respond to changes in the child’s behavior. This system is based primarily on typical age-related changes in children.
I want first of all to say about fear of children before, so they can stay simply ALONE WITH THEIR EXPERIENCES. This is the greatest and hardest burden for the baby. and for a teenager. A parent can learn about it, it started to communicate with the child about it. But all the drama is that it puts adults in a deadlock. Why? Because we mistakenly believe our role is to protect the child by simple exclusion fear of his life. However, does it help? Here is one story – a conversation Katie (she’s four years old) and her mom in the dressing room dance Studio:
Kate: Mom, let’s get going. There in the corner, you may receive a bogeyman.
(girl pointing finger in a far dark corner of the room)
Mom: Well, what’s the bogeyman! Barmalei does not happen. He only lives in a fairy tale.
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Supporters of same-sex partnerships zealously argue that children still, do they have a mom and dad, or their two grown men (or two women). Rosemarie and religious organizations, as well as many psychologists vengeance scream that grew up in the atmosphere homosexual relationship children will, by default, psychologically traumatized and handicapped in life.
But due to the fact that the legalization of same-sex partnerships and the “marriage” began to occur in some countries not so long ago, until recently there was no reason to do an objective scientific conclusion. For a simple reason — had not increased the generation of such children.
However, in the fall of 2010, mark Regnerus, doctor of sociology, associate Professor at the University of Texas at Austin (USA), began his famous research on the topic “How different adult children whose parents have same-sex relationships”. His work, the scientist has completed a year and a half later — in 2012. However, the data analysis continues to the present day they are available to all interested scientists, through the Inter-University consortium for political and social research at the University of Michigan.
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“Temporary separation strengthens the relationship”, I think you have heard it said? But is this true? In fact, the breakup only helps to better appreciate and understand the depth and strength of their own feelings, but whether the result of a temporary parting strengthening relations or they will stop — depends on many circumstances.
A break in the relationship may occur due to natural causes – forced departure, trip, etc. But is it worth to create such circumstances artificially? – Yes, sometimes it is impossible to do, but not always necessary.
If in a relationship it’s okay, I wouldn’t advise you to take a break just to “check your feelings”. In this there is no need, and the temporary artificial separation will do more harm than good. But sometimes a break in the relationship becomes the last resort to preserve them.
It happens that your communication reaches the stage where the partners are in need of some space and the need to “take a break”, with the belief that such a break will strengthen their bond. Let’s see if I take a break to save a relationship or not helps.
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