It is well known that pre-school preparation of children plays an important role. All the kids have a moving character, a heightened sense of curiosity and low awareness of responsibility. And child to school only dedicated games and entertainment, it will be very difficult to readjust and get used to his new role – student. which must diligently and quietly to behave in lessons, to listen to the teacher, memorize new material and regularly do their homework.
Therefore, much attention is paid to preparing the child for school. But during this time it is necessary not just to impart discipline, to explain the new rules and responsibilities, and teach at least basic numeracy and reading. We need to develop his motor skills, memory, imagination, reaction and logic. And the best tool in this can be a specialized computer games .
And do not rush contemptuously to be bent and to snort indignantly!
These classes absolutely will not be like fun and a waste of time. In the development of these programmes were attended by child psychologists, and they were created precisely in order to help you properly and successfully to prepare your child for school. to correct omissions or errors in its development. And the brilliance and clarity will turn this lesson into a kind of game and will facilitate the child’s perception Continue reading
Every man is a transitional being, which every act or work out psychological problems of their parents, or passes them on to their children. Moreover, it should be understood that the speech in this case goes about the transfer of subconscious programs that the parents themselves determine the age of which a person has no conscious memories. Most people don’t notice it happening, so one German writer has called this process a secret Treaty generations. Parents have no idea how authoritative for the child at an early age by their words and actions. The child in his judgment about the world that possesses a critical mind, so all he has to say about the world, becomes a truth, which he takes in the system of his beliefs and can take through life. But what seems true parents, lived all his life in poverty is likely to be severely limit someone who wants to become rich. In childhood, we often find ourselves in situations where we feel powerless against the mighty giants – parents; therefore, at the age of three, apparent harmless, methods of education, as the control, regulation, criticisms and censure,are for a child is very significant. And coercion, deprivation of autonomy, manipulation through guilt and shame are far-reaching.
Is there a parent who did not abuse their power against a child?
How often do children hear: “No!”, “Don’t touch!”, “Don’t walk”. This is due, undoubtedly, to the safety of the child, but the bans from the necessary security tool has become a tool of manipulation for a more comfortable status of the parents. Much easier to shout ‘ Stop!’ sitting in a chair than to stand up and help overcome the child a dangerous obstacle. Easier to shout “don’t touch!”, than to come and spend efforts on the introduction of the child with an interesting object, such as scissors. Psychologists estimate that the average family child daily and gets 460 is negative, critical or limiting comments, and only 75 positive and approving. Soon the growing human body produces the reflex of uncertainty in their relations with the surrounding world. Continue reading