Teach your son to put into words what he feels. The kid can scream in frustration, to hide from embarrassment, biting excitement and crying from fear. Explain to him that it is emotions that tell the body how to behave. Show him other people who feel the same, but Express their emotions differently. Talk with your child about your own emotions. When he one day will grow, you will know the difference between rage and embarrassment, disappointment and grief, and learn to cope with their emotions and Express them intelligently, without shame and without guilt.
Papa will teach him the most important things. If you let dad be immersed in the process of raising a child from the very beginning, ever the son formed the correct opinion: his dad knows EVERYTHING. You will always be loved by his mother, but daddy for boy is a special man who knows the answers to all the questions.Make it so that the boy talked more in men’s element! If he had little contact with his father, he goes to training or in groups where the teacher is male.
Read to him and with him. Children become readers on the lap of their parents. The child needs to see that you also read. Tell him about what you read. About their favorite books and characters. Explain to him why it is so important to read books. And read together and then Continue reading
If it’s not quite a child who is not very difference between truth and own fiction, we should seriously enough to treat the manifestations of lies and figure out its cause. Usually, the main reason for this behavior is the elementary fear of imminent punishment, the desire to attract attention to themselves or the fear not to live up to parental expectations.
This is of course all right, but the most unpleasant and proven way – blowout. They need to bring on the ship (if you swim) and the road (if the road).
Think maybe you are bringing to your child is a very excessive demands, who, because of their age or development, simply can not meet. A fear of losing in this regard, your affection causes him to lie, exaggerating his achievements and “forgetting” about those offenses that have been committed.
Why lie to us?
They not enough time to use formal language, collocations like “this company”, “the man”. Professional investigators always require detainees to tell the story from the end to reveal, cheating man in this Continue reading
Who a child’s parents are not thrashed with a belt, hand, or actually what is necessary? Answer honestly — yourself hand on heart. I won’t lie — I was “educated”.
Do You know what is the impact of parental physical and psychological punishment on the child for his future life?
Let’s look at why you can’t punish the child, even if you really want and it seems that other methods of education?
Just note that the punishment of children the child with a belt and beaten — so-called “spanking” is not the worst thing that children.
The worst punishment for kids is not physical but psychological.
But let us all in order.
What parents crave, punishing his supposedly beloved child so violent methods — spanking spanking, ignoring, angry shouts, dirty abuse, blackmail on the principle of “If you don’t. I don’t know what you’ll do!”?
Many parents openly mock the bodies and souls of their children and this process is called harmonious word “Education”. And raise their crumbs dads and moms who can’t control their emotions, and selflessly like otygryval little butt for all the failures and defeats in life.
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Parental responsibility for the improper upbringing of children
The question in this case concerns the termination of parental rights, which is:
first of all, aims to protect the health and psyche of the child and to create normal conditions for life;
is family legal sanction, measure legal liability for their public-harmful behavior, i.e. punitive function. Therefore, termination of parental rights applies only in case of culpable behaviour of the parents;
in addition, aim to prevent similar violations in other families, i.e. has preventive value.
The law sets out an exhaustive list of situations where parents may be deprived of parental rights.
If parents shirk parental responsibilities. The speech in this case goes about the nonperformance of the activities that parents are required to do so by law, in particular about the lack of attention, care. Evasion parenting is also considered willful refusal to pay child support (though very systematic failure to pay child support without good reason), failure to stay with the child.
In that case, if parents without good reason, refuse to take their child home from the hospital or other health institutions, Continue reading
It is well known that pre-school preparation of children plays an important role. All the kids have a moving character, a heightened sense of curiosity and low awareness of responsibility. And child to school only dedicated games and entertainment, it will be very difficult to readjust and get used to his new role – student. which must diligently and quietly to behave in lessons, to listen to the teacher, memorize new material and regularly do their homework.
Therefore, much attention is paid to preparing the child for school. But during this time it is necessary not just to impart discipline, to explain the new rules and responsibilities, and teach at least basic numeracy and reading. We need to develop his motor skills, memory, imagination, reaction and logic. And the best tool in this can be a specialized computer games .
And do not rush contemptuously to be bent and to snort indignantly!
These classes absolutely will not be like fun and a waste of time. In the development of these programmes were attended by child psychologists, and they were created precisely in order to help you properly and successfully to prepare your child for school. to correct omissions or errors in its development. And the brilliance and clarity will turn this lesson into a kind of game and will facilitate the child’s perception Continue reading