Supporters of same-sex partnerships zealously argue that children still, do they have a mom and dad, or their two grown men (or two women). Rosemarie and religious organizations, as well as many psychologists vengeance scream that grew up in the atmosphere homosexual relationship children will, by default, psychologically traumatized and handicapped in life.
But due to the fact that the legalization of same-sex partnerships and the “marriage” began to occur in some countries not so long ago, until recently there was no reason to do an objective scientific conclusion. For a simple reason — had not increased the generation of such children.
However, in the fall of 2010, mark Regnerus, doctor of sociology, associate Professor at the University of Texas at Austin (USA), began his famous research on the topic “How different adult children whose parents have same-sex relationships”. His work, the scientist has completed a year and a half later — in 2012. However, the data analysis continues to the present day they are available to all interested scientists, through the Inter-University consortium for political and social research at the University of Michigan.
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When I only have a second daughter was born, the world just turned upside down. I didn’t know where to go, what to grab and how to manage everything. On hand were two screaming little kids (daughters the difference is 1.5 years old): one is a control freak, second, one’s teeth, the second my tummy hurts… she is not getting enough sleep, all superimposed, chores to do once. And against this background I started to get annoyed, to fall on the husband yelling at his elder daughter.
All this I endured two months. Then I realized, what I did was wrong and started to look for information, how to live with two small children. And came across the flylady forum where I found the first principle, which I loved, helped me overcome that period and learned a lot.
So, the first principle . Not done and can do . Now I never plan on spring cleaning for a few hours. If I have 10-15 minutes free, then I just take, for example, my floors. Or have 5 minutes – I’ll wash the kitchen sink.
As a result, I don’t have to force yourself. Imagine: it’s one thing when you have three hours to clean the house, do absolutely not want to. And quite another when between, just to switch from one activity to another. Fifteen minutes Continue reading
“Temporary separation strengthens the relationship”, I think you have heard it said? But is this true? In fact, the breakup only helps to better appreciate and understand the depth and strength of their own feelings, but whether the result of a temporary parting strengthening relations or they will stop — depends on many circumstances.
A break in the relationship may occur due to natural causes – forced departure, trip, etc. But is it worth to create such circumstances artificially? – Yes, sometimes it is impossible to do, but not always necessary.
If in a relationship it’s okay, I wouldn’t advise you to take a break just to “check your feelings”. In this there is no need, and the temporary artificial separation will do more harm than good. But sometimes a break in the relationship becomes the last resort to preserve them.
It happens that your communication reaches the stage where the partners are in need of some space and the need to “take a break”, with the belief that such a break will strengthen their bond. Let’s see if I take a break to save a relationship or not helps.
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The child is not lying – he really begins to feel ill at the very moment when it is necessary to go to study Photo: Vadim SISTEMININ
Psychologists have a term – “syndrome 7 September”. This is when a child, happily waiting for the start of school for half a summer, just a week of practice begins to sulk and complain about feeling unwell.
Unfortunately this is the norm for most first graders. Yes and older children sometimes this syndrome covers.
In this way children react to stress from the beginning of the lessons. The child is not lying – he really begins to feel ill at the very moment when you have to go to school or to do homework. But should stay at home or take toys like all the sickness here goes!
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Divorce for a child is always a very traumatic experience. We, as parents, can’t have a breakup so that it did not affect the child’s psyche. No matter how parents try to soften the impact of divorce on children, there was always gonna be some negative consequences of this situation. Of course, this does not mean that the way out of this situation – “will be together for the sake of the child”. Is better to know what effect it may have on children divorce and how to ease its effects.
The effects of divorce on children under 3 years
During this period you may experience:
Early divorces (up to five years after the wedding) happening more and more often. As a result, more young children are witnessing the breakup of their parents. What a child at the age of 12-18 months is not yet able to Express their emotions, doesn’t mean he couldn’t feel and also does not mean that you will not feel the negative effects of divorce – even if the father is not too much present in his life.
Task development of a child up to 3 years is the study of the world around him. The more secure the child Continue reading