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If You have a growing SON

Teach your son to put into words what he feels. The kid can scream in frustration, to hide from embarrassment, biting excitement and crying from fear. Explain to him that it is emotions that tell the body how to behave. Show him other people who feel the same, but Express their emotions differently. Talk with your child about your own emotions. When he one day will grow, you will know the difference between rage and embarrassment, disappointment and grief, and learn to cope with their emotions and Express them intelligently, without shame and without guilt.

Papa will teach him the most important things. If you let dad be immersed in the process of raising a child from the very beginning, ever the son formed the correct opinion: his dad knows EVERYTHING. You will always be loved by his mother, but daddy for boy is a special man who knows the answers to all the questions.Make it so that the boy talked more in men’s element! If he had little contact with his father, he goes to training or in groups where the teacher is male.

Read to him and with him. Children become readers on the lap of their parents. The child needs to see that you also read. Tell him about what you read. About their favorite books and characters. Explain to him why it is so important to read books. And read together and then Continue reading

The Technique How to help your child

Many kids are afraid of something, someone… How do these constant fears that are the basis for many life.

“… Come grey little wolf and bite at the flank,” the mother sings a lullaby, and then is surprised when he hears from a child :”I’m scared!”. Together, let us understand, what are the causes of fear from our children and how to deal with them.

In the first place . children learn fears from us, parents. If mom is afraid of dogs, there’s a very high chance that the child will be afraid of them. The same applies to fear of thunderstorm and lots more. The children of anxious mothers, ready all around to see the potential danger for your kid grow up to be ultra-cautious and fearful. And all because at every step mum warns: “Caution! Machine! Attention! Dog! Caution. “And the child becomes accustomed to living in anxiety, subconsciously, all the time expecting some danger.

Secondly . children’s fears and generates excessive parental care. The child growing in greenhouse conditions, it’s very difficult to adjust to life without “protective suit”, and he is everywhere begin to haunt danger, and on this basis, there are fears. Continue reading

Blind parental love

We begin to love their children even before their birth. Imagine what will become parents, read the smart log and listen to the advice of experienced moms. When the baby is born, the love for him increases many times. And in return we expect the same. They say that love is never too much. And here it happens. How not to “perlubie” of the child and not to spoil the excessive love of the little man?

It happens that the child becomes the raison d’être of his parents. To some extent it should be, after all, giving birth to the baby, you have taken responsibility for his life and destiny. He is a bad parent who care for their duties, impulsive in matters of education and relies on others or nature: “something will grow!”.

Yes only has dire consequences, and at the other extreme sacrifice. The mother puts on the family altar their lives, sacrifice their children’s interests. Her motives are noble: “My child needs to have everything that wasn’t from me, I will put as much of his love and attention, so he was happy.” But, a mother’s sacrifice is the basis of the neurotic state of deep depression and inability to make right accents.

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