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Prevention of addictions in children

 

It is no secret that in the life of the younger generation there is the temptation to drink or smoke. And this shouldn’t surprise – a considerable income from sales of liquor and tobacco products nowadays bear children. The reasons for such action can be many:

– the desire to “appear” in front of their peers;

– unwillingness to be the black sheep in the eyes of peers;

– imitation of their elders.

And that’s not all.

How so?

In the lives of youth nicotine and alcohol is so deeply ingrained that already to try, no need to find yourself a bad company. Moreover, these addictions may be present in the lives of perfectly normal children from affluent families. The question is: what motivates them to do this?

And after all, it would seem that all parents (even the most irresponsible) conduct lectures to the child about the dangers of Smoking and alcohol consumption. However, their children do not argue and agree with what was said. However, when in the noisy company, at a raging party night or just on the bench, they were asked to try the “more experienced” buddies, words of parents go somewhere in the background.

It remains to ask ourselves about whether were prevention of bad habits to your child. Talk more about that.

Prevention of harmful habits

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Y. B. Gippenreiter To communicate with a child – Like?

The first edition of this book quickly sold out, which confirmed the great need of our readers in the acquisition of knowledge and practical skills to help you better communicate with children.

Admire the exceptional willingness of people to work seriously to create psychological well-being of their children and families, despite the economic upheavals and stresses of our modern life. Specialists of the “helping professions” — practical psychologists, psychotherapists, social workers and teachers — which now is growing fast become an indispensable part of this process.

The author was nice and important to receive wonderful feedback on the usefulness of books from different circles of readers — parents and teachers referred to professionals working with families and children, teachers, training of these professionals, and even (which was especially a pleasant surprise) by the teenagers.

The positive reception of the book was forced to continue to think over its contents: what else would be useful to include?

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Is it Possible to educate parents?

 

A lot has been said and written about parental love. The best kind of love is recognized as unconditional love for your child. This is an example of God’s love on Earth. Very often use this metaphor: God’s love for the world, unconditional love of the father and mother to child. Those who find it difficult to comprehend the concept of “love of God”, it is possible to imagine a vast ocean, which washes the shore always, whatever the weather, time of day and time of year. Similarly unconditional love is always present in the heart of mothers and fathers. The question is, can I, as a parent, to give this love?

Unconditional love is love without conditions – is an art. Everyone knows that any art would not exist without the necessary knowledge, skills and acquired skills, effort and frequent workouts. One day, deciding to become parents, we allow unconditional love to conquer our nature. The ability to love unconditionally, like nothing else in this world, needs careful conservation and sustained development. The source of parental love is the soul and the inherent impulses of emotions and feelings. As classic said: “the Soul is obliged to work hard all day and night, day and night.” It’s true: to love means to be willing to exhausting domestic Continue reading

The Child after the divorce (a guide for survivors)
Divorce with children is always very tragic. Not always ready for it parents. But for children in General, divorce «sounds» like thunder from a clear sky… They don — egocentric,…

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Anomalies parental love
  The main secret of obedience The ratio of children to parents is a mirror reflection of the attitude of parents to God. To change children, it is necessary to…

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Why lie to our children?
Parents notice the tendency of children to lie very early, almost from the moment the child begins to speak, the doctor said. However, young children often harmless lie: an exaggeration,…

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