The main secret of obedience
The ratio of children to parents is a mirror reflection of the attitude of parents to God. To change children, it is necessary to God to change parents-NML. Ask others more than yourself, much easier and easier.
Modern parent the world is filled with murmuring and grumbling:
— What naughty children, it’s amazing! Said, “Go to the store,” not went. “Take the bed,” not removed. “Wash the dishes”, — ‘t lift a finger. My strength is gone, in the coffin will drive.
Dear parents! Remember that God instructed to perform you daily, think about your Rodi research responsibilities. And if you understand that you do not perform, then looking truth in the eye, will reveal a simple truth: your children come to you. Children are rebelling because you are rebelling against those who put God above you: against powers, against the rulers at work, against the pastors of the Church. Children are disobedient to you, because you are disobedient to God. Children become indifferent to you because you have become indifferent to God. Children do not see you as a spiritual authority, because God has ceased to be your Patron. Continue reading
We begin to love their children even before their birth. Imagine what will become parents, read the smart log and listen to the advice of experienced moms. When the baby is born, the love for him increases many times. And in return we expect the same. They say that love is never too much. And here it happens. How not to “perlubie” of the child and not to spoil the excessive love of the little man?
It happens that the child becomes the raison d’être of his parents. To some extent it should be, after all, giving birth to the baby, you have taken responsibility for his life and destiny. He is a bad parent who care for their duties, impulsive in matters of education and relies on others or nature: “something will grow!”.
Yes only has dire consequences, and at the other extreme sacrifice. The mother puts on the family altar their lives, sacrifice their children’s interests. Her motives are noble: “My child needs to have everything that wasn’t from me, I will put as much of his love and attention, so he was happy.” But, a mother’s sacrifice is the basis of the neurotic state of deep depression and inability to make right accents.
Giving Continue reading
Divorce with children is always very tragic. Not always ready for it parents. But for children in General, divorce «sounds» like thunder from a clear sky… They don — egocentric, the whole world revolve around them alone and suddenly… all permanent and eternal crumbling…
The parents are no longer together. The child is very difficult to understand. How? Why? Issues not on age and experience of the baby…
Consequences of divorce for children
And in this hectic and whirlwind of divorce, the child decides that it’s his fault. He didn’t listen, he broke up his pants, he cried a lot and asked for a new toy…
Naive? Of course! But it is for our adult, grown wise life of the mind, and the baby my little brain could think. Especially if, God forbid, any of these events very «successfully» coincided with the departure of one parent (most often, of course, the Pope).
Older children may be angry at everyone and everything, to show regressive reactions, answer back to both parents, to be offended. Thus, they are taking revenge.
Taking revenge for the fact that their safe little world collapsed, went upside down. Children do not understand the meaning Continue reading