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Unconditional love?

i“Blizzard” is about unconditional love, as if, once again coming into fashion, depriving the rest of particularly sensitive and sverkhsvetovykh moms.

My idea is not original, but not universally. It is that unconditional love, most likely, does not exist. If a person is able to love unconditionally, then it is either Holy (without irony!), or just prone to self-deception. In the first case I would like this person to meet and become his apprentice. True! I really want to achieve the degree of enlightenment, when you know how to love. But such people I have not seen. I suspect that they do not. But from time to time meet somebody declares the importance of such love and denounces all, it is capable of.Oddly enough, most often the sounding nonsense broadcast psychologists or educators, or – especially – teachers-psychologists. And suffer from it, most often they are the same. And their children.

Why suffer? Because, trying to hide herself from unwanted feelings (type of hatred for the child), the mother becomes tense, unnatural and disturbing. The child feels unmistakably that something was wrong, but because feelings are not named and not defined by the mother, the child cannot understand what is happening, but feels anxiety. His own anger and rage regarding unsatisfactory relationship with her mother nowhere to place because the mother is unable to containerwith them. Guilt (autoaggressive), Continue reading

What to do when your child lies

If it’s not quite a child who is not very difference between truth and own fiction, we should seriously enough to treat the manifestations of lies and figure out its cause. Usually, the main reason for this behavior is the elementary fear of imminent punishment, the desire to attract attention to themselves or the fear not to live up to parental expectations.

This is of course all right, but the most unpleasant and proven way – blowout. They need to bring on the ship (if you swim) and the road (if the road).

Think maybe you are bringing to your child is a very excessive demands, who, because of their age or development, simply can not meet. A fear of losing in this regard, your affection causes him to lie, exaggerating his achievements and “forgetting” about those offenses that have been committed.

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Why lie to us?

They not enough time to use formal language, collocations like “this company”, “the man”. Professional investigators always require detainees to tell the story from the end to reveal, cheating man in this Continue reading

Healthy lifestyle of the family.

 

A child attending pre-school, influenced by two sets of micro-social environment created in the family and in preschool. These two different forms of providing conditions for the development of the child cannot be considered identical and opposed to each other. Each microsocial environment has both positive and negative possibilities for influence on the child to ensure its full development and good health.

The main positive factors family microsocial environment is the diversity of objects and phenomena that surround the child, continuous positive emotional communication with the adult, attention to individual features.

However, a family can have adverse effects: for example, when the family’s only child, at the wrong upbringing may be formed egocentrism, the inability to communicate with peers, slower formation of life skills (self and others), which affects the development and the state of his health, delay in social inclusion, fixing bad habits, redundant information (especially as a result of wrong watching TV).

All these negative qualities can be formed in the child, if the family unhealthy climate.

Taking care of the development and health Continue reading

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