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Computer games for the little ones.

 

Discussion of games, toys, techniques, devoted several posts, even attached. But there is no discussion of computer games.

The son of a few months playing at the computer. Initially, the games were held my rigid censorship, then it was an omission, when it played in everything, himself, now, again, censorship is installed.

I thought, and this was confirmed by later observations, some games do more good than harm, of course, on the precondition that the computer is not a substitute for everyday leisure, festivals, games with their parents.

In my opinion, a computer game is a wonderful addition to our life (at home) when the child has the urge to act . but there is no opportunity to repeat the activity of the parent (e.g., mother sews on the sewing machine). The parent has no time clock to take the child with interesting games and tasks that call for perseverance, and interesting, for self-employment to the child of early age – very few (I almost never find them).

I tried to make a rough selection criteria games.

1. The complete absence of “nervousness” – all sorts of shouts, screams, the inadequate response of the characters Continue reading

The Culture of behavior in children

 

Culture is a broad concept that reveals the essence of moral standards in relation to people, to nature, to work, to objects of material and spiritual culture and, of course, to himself.

The child is forced to learn a number of rules that are necessary for life in society. These rules are readily available to the child and gradually absorbed them in the process of communicating with other people in your child’s daily routine and become, over time, habits of behavior and skills. Not for nothing they say ” Sow a habit – reap a character “.

Parents and teachers should be aware of some peculiarities of pre-school age:

– Lack of skills and habits

– The inaccuracy of performance of rules of conduct

– Insufficient awareness of their actions

– Heritance

Foster a culture of behavior in children is needed with respect to adults . Children see that their parents care about them and will try to respond in kind, willingly fulfilling their requests, obeying them, will seek to please their actions.

The child needs to be able to support emotionally positive tone of communication with others, to use the words of courtesy. Let the child tries to behave so as not to disturb others and does not interrupt adult conversation, Continue reading

Prevention of addictions in children

 

It is no secret that in the life of the younger generation there is the temptation to drink or smoke. And this shouldn’t surprise – a considerable income from sales of liquor and tobacco products nowadays bear children. The reasons for such action can be many:

– the desire to “appear” in front of their peers;

– unwillingness to be the black sheep in the eyes of peers;

– imitation of their elders.

And that’s not all.

How so?

In the lives of youth nicotine and alcohol is so deeply ingrained that already to try, no need to find yourself a bad company. Moreover, these addictions may be present in the lives of perfectly normal children from affluent families. The question is: what motivates them to do this?

And after all, it would seem that all parents (even the most irresponsible) conduct lectures to the child about the dangers of Smoking and alcohol consumption. However, their children do not argue and agree with what was said. However, when in the noisy company, at a raging party night or just on the bench, they were asked to try the “more experienced” buddies, words of parents go somewhere in the background.

It remains to ask ourselves about whether were prevention of bad habits to your child. Talk more about that.

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