Spoiled brat – spoiled by indulgence, sissy. And pampering is relevant to anyone with unwanted attention, pandering to all the desires and whims. That usually mean by spoiled? Put “spoiled” often imply a lack of manners. Meanwhile, in the interpretations, there is no word about “bad manners”. Indeed, emotional instability, whims, unwillingness to listen and hear parents, lack of autonomy, self-centeredness, inability to build relationships with other children – this is not a complete list of “symptoms” that can be called spoiled. If you look at this phenomenon broadly, we can say that spoiled children are children who have not set boundaries are. Such a child is difficult to fit into the game peers, safely pass showcase with toys or heed the words of the parents – the child has no relevant skills.
Thus, placed in one row concepts: the spoiling, pampering and rude. Accordingly, if given to the child too much attention, then definitely he will be spoiled. When building such a chain there is a substitution of concepts. What do you mean “unwanted attention”?
In his desire not to spoil the child, parents can show the wonders of ingenuity. For example, if the child is wet, and to roll over or crawl yet maybe some parents can push the baby in a dry place, and take him in her arms with this approach, Continue reading
Parental responsibility for the improper upbringing of children
The question in this case concerns the termination of parental rights, which is:
first of all, aims to protect the health and psyche of the child and to create normal conditions for life;
is family legal sanction, measure legal liability for their public-harmful behavior, i.e. punitive function. Therefore, termination of parental rights applies only in case of culpable behaviour of the parents;
in addition, aim to prevent similar violations in other families, i.e. has preventive value.
The law sets out an exhaustive list of situations where parents may be deprived of parental rights.
If parents shirk parental responsibilities. The speech in this case goes about the nonperformance of the activities that parents are required to do so by law, in particular about the lack of attention, care. Evasion parenting is also considered willful refusal to pay child support (though very systematic failure to pay child support without good reason), failure to stay with the child.
In that case, if parents without good reason, refuse to take their child home from the hospital or other health institutions, Continue reading
The family grows favorite child, of course, the whole family takes care of him, and educate every member of the family understands the process of education.
Mom always loves and forgives pranks, grandparents – is a separate issue, they are pampered, and my dad trying to raise purposefully or not to intervene.
Parenting with love proven by many psychologists, but modern society interprets the concept “education of love” from different angles of vision.
In his book “How to prepare your child for life” Victor Klein helps parents to understand the education of children with examples of different couples. In families where there is love and understanding, easier experienced difficulties and problems.
Interesting: Hardening of infants
In such families the husband and wife, having different temperaments and outlooks on life, devoted to each other, love children and care for the happiness of the whole family. If the marriage is good, children are “like sponges” absorb parental love and easy to care. Love in the family manifested a constant interest and care for each other, children are more open to parents, therefore, the solution of children’s problems passes without nervous breakdowns, but on mutual understanding and trust.
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