“Our son/daughter is lying! What do we do?” is a frequent complaint of parents in the office of a child psychologist. Parents wonder why their child is lying, because in their family, this behavior is not practiced. Others simply burn with shame for their child – lie their baby becomes public property, have already learned teachers or educators. There are among parents and those who are completely deluded by their child’s behavior. They admit that they don’t know what to believe and what not.
But what would have been the reaction of parents to lie to children, the ratio is always unambiguously negative. And the question of what to do and how to wean the child to lie, to tell lies and mislead others in, is very relevant.
A psychologist come when all known methods have been tried. A request or an order “Stop lying!” the child was ignored, physical punishment does not have the desired effect, and the threats were not heeded. To understand what to do in situations when your child is cheating, let’s see, why and why he does it.
Why do children lie?
Children lying is a very common phenomenon, but in each case it’s always a unique story. However, in most cases, a lie is a consequence of the child’s problem, not the problem itself. Therefore, to defeat the lies, we must find Continue reading
Here I read a lot of different newsletters, publications, magazines on the subject of child development and healthy parenting. Everywhere a lot of information for moms. Here mom, these are great, have learned to catch everything, and a time plan, and children develop, develop themselves, etc. are All fine, but where’s the Pope? Okay, most dads – work and family, so mom could have a child/children. But they too must take part in the upbringing and development of children. Clearly, every family has their views on it and their own rules. Yes, and to work with dad-to-date prices should be very much… still, back to the main – dad needs to take part in the development of the child from birth.
The second question is how the Pope to this motivation, if he is afraid or does not want, or excuses all the time? I believe that such strong family simply can not be – adult conscious person understands that a child needs both parents equally. And find the time to half an hour a day a child to read or to Tinker with the toy, or to go for a walk is not a problem.
What to do if the Pope understands, agrees with this opinion, but still shirk their responsibilities? Start small – for example: Continue reading