Holy mystery of intimacy. Who does not wish that these minutes were clean, pleasantly sharp and significant for both. All until a certain period, different for each person, you understand that intimate relationships between the sexes, namely between spouses – something unusual and unknown, like the experience. And that is irresistibly attractive. But here the enemy was crippled hearts and thoughts, feelings and desires. We currently have unbridled perverted notion about the relationship between the sexes. The world is witnessing the corruption of evil desires, not needs. Each subsequently appears their distorted knowledge and the same distorted experience of sexual and marital relations. It is not customary to teach family and the more intimate relations – in accordance with the teachings of the Holy Scriptures, which expressed the will of the Creator.
How can we know the two that their relationship is pure and what is not. Today have lost the understanding of the purity and Holiness of the relationship. Maybe not all of it were before. But progress Continue reading
Teach your son to put into words what he feels. The kid can scream in frustration, to hide from embarrassment, biting excitement and crying from fear. Explain to him that it is emotions that tell the body how to behave. Show him other people who feel the same, but Express their emotions differently. Talk with your child about your own emotions. When he one day will grow, you will know the difference between rage and embarrassment, disappointment and grief, and learn to cope with their emotions and Express them intelligently, without shame and without guilt.
Papa will teach him the most important things. If you let dad be immersed in the process of raising a child from the very beginning, ever the son formed the correct opinion: his dad knows EVERYTHING. You will always be loved by his mother, but daddy for boy is a special man who knows the answers to all the questions.Make it so that the boy talked more in men’s element! If he had little contact with his father, he goes to training or in groups where the teacher is male.
Read to him and with him. Children become readers on the lap of their parents. The child needs to see that you also read. Tell him about what you read. About their favorite books and characters. Explain to him why it is so important to read books. And read together and then Continue reading
I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who was trying to get his little daughter stand on a moving stage. The child, who looked about four years, lagged behind, clinging to the railing and cried: “no, No, mom, I’m scared!” The mother, whose hands were full of parcels, continued to pull the child “don’t be such a baby, and she said to her – I’m embarrassed for you. There is nothing terrible”.
At this point, tall silver-haired man, who was waiting to get on the escalator, leaned over to the little girl and said, “You know what it is? This is the ladder for young rabbits. At night when the store is closed, they jump on the stairs. It’s their favorite game. But during the day the rabbits are scared of people and hide, allowing boys and girls to go on their stairs for the night.” The girl looked at him. Then with a serious expression trustingly took his hand and together they went up the escalator.
“How wonderful”, I thought to myself. Must this man has children and grandchildren, since he knows so well to distract the child. But something about this situation forced me to return again and again to her. Everything was so cute and yet something was wrong.
I realized this later on tonight. The trouble was that although the girl and persuaded to climb the escalator, no one told her that it is normal Continue reading