The family grows the baby. How do you want us parents to become successful and happy. From early childhood we spare no expense or effort to develop his abilities. However, always achieve the expected result?
We must remember that any abilities or specific skills young children develop only in the interesting play activities.
The success of the child in different activities depends significantly on the development of his overall ability to act independently. Often, however, it is the development of the autonomy of the child is least concerned parents. And they are surprised to find that the child lags behind his peers, only when starting, for example, led him to kindergarten. With some children there is a lot of problems because they almost don’t know anything – they are used every moment of their life, from dressing and feeding, to walk and to establish contacts with other children provides adults.
These children just don’t have any experience of independent activity, and teachers have to teach them basic self-help skills and communication. Continue reading
The family grows favorite child, of course, the whole family takes care of him, and educate every member of the family understands the process of education.
Mom always loves and forgives pranks, grandparents – is a separate issue, they are pampered, and my dad trying to raise purposefully or not to intervene.
Parenting with love proven by many psychologists, but modern society interprets the concept “education of love” from different angles of vision.
In his book “How to prepare your child for life” Victor Klein helps parents to understand the education of children with examples of different couples. In families where there is love and understanding, easier experienced difficulties and problems.
Interesting: Hardening of infants
In such families the husband and wife, having different temperaments and outlooks on life, devoted to each other, love children and care for the happiness of the whole family. If the marriage is good, children are “like sponges” absorb parental love and easy to care. Love in the family manifested a constant interest and care for each other, children are more open to parents, therefore, the solution of children’s problems passes without nervous breakdowns, but on mutual understanding and trust.
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A child attending pre-school, influenced by two sets of micro-social environment created in the family and in preschool. These two different forms of providing conditions for the development of the child cannot be considered identical and opposed to each other. Each microsocial environment has both positive and negative possibilities for influence on the child to ensure its full development and good health.
The main positive factors family microsocial environment is the diversity of objects and phenomena that surround the child, continuous positive emotional communication with the adult, attention to individual features.
However, a family can have adverse effects: for example, when the family’s only child, at the wrong upbringing may be formed egocentrism, the inability to communicate with peers, slower formation of life skills (self and others), which affects the development and the state of his health, delay in social inclusion, fixing bad habits, redundant information (especially as a result of wrong watching TV).
All these negative qualities can be formed in the child, if the family unhealthy climate.
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