Your newborn baby is crying – you pick him up. He is hungry – you feed him. He has a wet diaper – you change. You will certainly meet his every need. To care for the baby and so very difficult, and of course, nurture your baby too early, right? But soon the child becomes wiser, and his needs are transformed into desires, and you understand that it would not hurt to set some boundaries.
How many times per day you patiently pick up from the floor and thrown a pacifier, a toy or an overturned bowl of porridge?
We know what you’re thinking: 1 or 2 years ’ s too early to punish the child. That kind of attitude is a stumbling block. Because education – this is not the only punishment. This training and instruction, which can and should start from an early age.
Limitations – an important part of your parental duty. You help the child understand what is good and what is bad, follow the rules and deal with disappointments. Of course, we all know that a child who is “bad behavior”, do not do this on purpose. When the child breaks your points, he’s only doing what instinct tells him ” explores the outside world. Continue reading
Discussion of games, toys, techniques, devoted several posts, even attached. But there is no discussion of computer games.
The son of a few months playing at the computer. Initially, the games were held my rigid censorship, then it was an omission, when it played in everything, himself, now, again, censorship is installed.
I thought, and this was confirmed by later observations, some games do more good than harm, of course, on the precondition that the computer is not a substitute for everyday leisure, festivals, games with their parents.
In my opinion, a computer game is a wonderful addition to our life (at home) when the child has the urge to act . but there is no opportunity to repeat the activity of the parent (e.g., mother sews on the sewing machine). The parent has no time clock to take the child with interesting games and tasks that call for perseverance, and interesting, for self-employment to the child of early age – very few (I almost never find them).
I tried to make a rough selection criteria games.
1. The complete absence of “nervousness” – all sorts of shouts, screams, the inadequate response of the characters Continue reading
Socio-economic instability of modern society exacerbates a number of problems of education of children. When faced with child stealing, many parents and teachers are experiencing a complex range of negative emotions: anger, shame, fear for the future of the child, a sense of helplessness. The causes of this phenomenon are often hidden, making it difficult to find the right pedagogical response to the act of the child.
Theft – this is criminal misappropriation and stealing someone else’s property, contrary to the law of morality and ethics.
Child theft is a frequent phenomenon, but carefully concealed as alcoholism and other “shameful” family secrets. In the minds of most adults firmly soldered two mythologies: the child is an innocent angel, and stealing – a sign of the criminal world. When a child is caught stealing, the parents usually feel completely confused. Experts believe that the only correct response to the theft does not exist – it depends on the reasons why a child steals.
Researchers identify social and psychological causes of child stealing. To social Continue reading