“Blizzard” is about unconditional love, as if, once again coming into fashion, depriving the rest of particularly sensitive and sverkhsvetovykh moms.
My idea is not original, but not universally. It is that unconditional love, most likely, does not exist. If a person is able to love unconditionally, then it is either Holy (without irony!), or just prone to self-deception. In the first case I would like this person to meet and become his apprentice. True! I really want to achieve the degree of enlightenment, when you know how to love. But such people I have not seen. I suspect that they do not. But from time to time meet somebody declares the importance of such love and denounces all, it is capable of.Oddly enough, most often the sounding nonsense broadcast psychologists or educators, or – especially – teachers-psychologists. And suffer from it, most often they are the same. And their children.
Why suffer? Because, trying to hide herself from unwanted feelings (type of hatred for the child), the mother becomes tense, unnatural and disturbing. The child feels unmistakably that something was wrong, but because feelings are not named and not defined by the mother, the child cannot understand what is happening, but feels anxiety. His own anger and rage regarding unsatisfactory relationship with her mother nowhere to place because the mother is unable to containerwith them. Guilt (autoaggressive), Continue reading
Discussion of games, toys, techniques, devoted several posts, even attached. But there is no discussion of computer games.
The son of a few months playing at the computer. Initially, the games were held my rigid censorship, then it was an omission, when it played in everything, himself, now, again, censorship is installed.
I thought, and this was confirmed by later observations, some games do more good than harm, of course, on the precondition that the computer is not a substitute for everyday leisure, festivals, games with their parents.
In my opinion, a computer game is a wonderful addition to our life (at home) when the child has the urge to act . but there is no opportunity to repeat the activity of the parent (e.g., mother sews on the sewing machine). The parent has no time clock to take the child with interesting games and tasks that call for perseverance, and interesting, for self-employment to the child of early age – very few (I almost never find them).
I tried to make a rough selection criteria games.
1. The complete absence of “nervousness” – all sorts of shouts, screams, the inadequate response of the characters Continue reading
Game with offers
Children read sentences in very different terms. These terms depend on the age of the baby, and how long he has been reading, and from the intensity, regularity of practice. How do you determine the moment of the child’s readiness for reading suggestions? The most correct would be to start learning to read sentences after successful completion of the reading of the words of 3-8 letters. It is important that the child understood the meaning of the words.
Try to gradually introduce offers. Start with simple sentences, consisting of 2-3 words. If your child is already 5 years old, gradually increase the number of words to 6-8. If your baby is only 4 years, limit while the sentences of 2-3 words, longer sentences, he will easily learn to read later.
The article presents 13 games. Proposals appearing in these games, the approximate and do not require precise execution. You can find or make suggestions, but try to make suggestions on topics close to your child about animals, about toys, about the heroes of fairy tales, etc.
Remember to read the proposals for the child is much more difficult than reading words. So perhaps in the beginning is to reduce the time of training.
Objective: to learn Continue reading