Education — focused and organized process of identity formation through specially organized pedagogical actions in accordance with a specific socio-pedagogical ideal. Education as a pedagogical concept includes 3 crucial characteristics:
1) focus, the presence of some of the sample, socio-cultural landmarks, ideal;
2) compliance progress of education socio-cultural values, as the achievements of the historical development of mankind;
3) the presence of a certain system organized by the educational influences and influences. Drivers Education:
External contradictions of the social and pedagogical – between age requirements to life and the requirements cat society are young, between school and family – political, economic and social contradictions between ideals and reality.
Inner – contradiction of the personality – between teaching conditions and active child, between aspirations and opportunities
Pedagogical regularities of education is an adequate reflection of objective reality in the educational process, having a common sustainable properties at any given circumstances. Highlighted patterns:
1. Child rearing is done only by the activity of the child. The measure of his efforts must match his / her abilities. Any educational task is solved through active action: physical development — through Continue reading
I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who was trying to get his little daughter stand on a moving stage. The child, who looked about four years, lagged behind, clinging to the railing and cried: “no, No, mom, I’m scared!” The mother, whose hands were full of parcels, continued to pull the child “don’t be such a baby, and she said to her – I’m embarrassed for you. There is nothing terrible”.
At this point, tall silver-haired man, who was waiting to get on the escalator, leaned over to the little girl and said, “You know what it is? This is the ladder for young rabbits. At night when the store is closed, they jump on the stairs. It’s their favorite game. But during the day the rabbits are scared of people and hide, allowing boys and girls to go on their stairs for the night.” The girl looked at him. Then with a serious expression trustingly took his hand and together they went up the escalator.
“How wonderful”, I thought to myself. Must this man has children and grandchildren, since he knows so well to distract the child. But something about this situation forced me to return again and again to her. Everything was so cute and yet something was wrong.
I realized this later on tonight. The trouble was that although the girl and persuaded to climb the escalator, no one told her that it is normal Continue reading
Divorce with children is always very tragic. Not always ready for it parents. But for children in General, divorce «sounds» like thunder from a clear sky… They don — egocentric, the whole world revolve around them alone and suddenly… all permanent and eternal crumbling…
The parents are no longer together. The child is very difficult to understand. How? Why? Issues not on age and experience of the baby…
Consequences of divorce for children
And in this hectic and whirlwind of divorce, the child decides that it’s his fault. He didn’t listen, he broke up his pants, he cried a lot and asked for a new toy…
Naive? Of course! But it is for our adult, grown wise life of the mind, and the baby my little brain could think. Especially if, God forbid, any of these events very «successfully» coincided with the departure of one parent (most often, of course, the Pope).
Older children may be angry at everyone and everything, to show regressive reactions, answer back to both parents, to be offended. Thus, they are taking revenge.
Taking revenge for the fact that their safe little world collapsed, went upside down. Children do not understand the meaning Continue reading