I was recently amazed one three year old little girl: when I turned on the computer and said that we should wait it in the tone of a connoisseur said: «Loaded». I asked my mother where the child knows that the machine should boot. What your mother said to me, what about the fact the child was already six months as you know: every day she watches cartoons.
On this occasion, I have thought of a sad thought. Increasingly friends of children are not their peers, and digital gadgets: computers, game consoles. We give children, not thinking, and whether a child’s brain to explore the virtual space?
Children often receive as a gift than books, and electronic “toys”. They don’t draw in albums pencils, brushes, and drag the mouse cursor on the monitor screen. Kids get acquainted with flowers and geometric shapes for special educational programs. Alas, all the signs of the times. At first glance it seems that not anything wrong with what the child learns, and along with computer literacy is taught. Only here more often comes to mind the thought: but is it good for the child? Almost all know that sitting too long at the computer is harmful to vision. But it’s not the only trouble that Continue reading
“The victims he chose from among the children who are alone walking on the street or were in the wilderness. The attacker approached him, turning under the pretext – to the streets, the location of which he allegedly did not know.”
In another case, the lost boy could not learn how to get him to the bus stop, as he met on the way the students just ran away from him without explanation.
This information from news feeds shows us one of the issues of the day: “does the child Have to help strangers?”. It is my opinion.
The child SHOULD NOT help strangers. BUT it CAN be done most carefully and tentatively ensuring their OWN SECURITY.
What might it look like in practice? In the first case, the man asks the child to show the way to the street of Lenin, and almost every city has such a street. The child, for example, knows how to this street pass.
But his first reaction should be as follows: assessment of the situation, retreat to a safe distance (2 meters), ending the conversation and leaving in a safe place. We talked about this in the article, Continue reading
I don’t want to live with such a cheapskate like you, here’s your wedding ring!
— Where’s the box?
It seems that with each century, a growing passion of people to the consumerism, the possession of material goods. Greed begets envy, jealousy, greed, strife between relatives, pushes on crime. Greedy people regret not only for other things, they will share their time, knowledge, warmth, does not help in difficult times. Life with a mean person can turn into a nightmare for his family. Your child is not caught in the net of greed, instill in him a desire to share that generosity.
But not so simple. Let’s start with the fact that every man has property from which he did not want to leave. Imagine that to you on the street was approached by an unknown woman and asked your hairbrush or lipstick. You will reject her claim to your personal belongings. So whether or not to require the child to give to play with your toys little stranger who sees for the first time? If you look, we do this in order to make a good impression on the parents of a boy or girl applying for your child’s favorite toys. Do not force the child to share: having a defensive reaction in the form of greed.
Greed is the inordinate desire reign of possessing something. Be called a greedy child who does not want to part Continue reading