Many kids are afraid of something, someone… How do these constant fears that are the basis for many life.
“… Come grey little wolf and bite at the flank,” the mother sings a lullaby, and then is surprised when he hears from a child :”I’m scared!”. Together, let us understand, what are the causes of fear from our children and how to deal with them.
In the first place . children learn fears from us, parents. If mom is afraid of dogs, there’s a very high chance that the child will be afraid of them. The same applies to fear of thunderstorm and lots more. The children of anxious mothers, ready all around to see the potential danger for your kid grow up to be ultra-cautious and fearful. And all because at every step mum warns: “Caution! Machine! Attention! Dog! Caution. “And the child becomes accustomed to living in anxiety, subconsciously, all the time expecting some danger.
Secondly . children’s fears and generates excessive parental care. The child growing in greenhouse conditions, it’s very difficult to adjust to life without “protective suit”, and he is everywhere begin to haunt danger, and on this basis, there are fears. Continue reading
A child attending pre-school, influenced by two sets of micro-social environment created in the family and in preschool. These two different forms of providing conditions for the development of the child cannot be considered identical and opposed to each other. Each microsocial environment has both positive and negative possibilities for influence on the child to ensure its full development and good health.
The main positive factors family microsocial environment is the diversity of objects and phenomena that surround the child, continuous positive emotional communication with the adult, attention to individual features.
However, a family can have adverse effects: for example, when the family’s only child, at the wrong upbringing may be formed egocentrism, the inability to communicate with peers, slower formation of life skills (self and others), which affects the development and the state of his health, delay in social inclusion, fixing bad habits, redundant information (especially as a result of wrong watching TV).
All these negative qualities can be formed in the child, if the family unhealthy climate.
Taking care of the development and health Continue reading
The question of what the Bible says about the relationships between generations – one of the most frequently asked on our site. Below are the main, though not all biblical texts related to this theme.
The statements of Scripture about the relationships between parents and children are very numerous, since it is an important spiritual and moral problem in people’s lives. Each era within its culture brings to the solution of something; The Bible offers us a look at this issue from a spiritual point of view. The most important thing that tells us the Word of God about these relationships, – that they are always built before the face of God and for the Creator care about how we act in relation to its parents and children.
The statements of Scripture on this subject can be divided into four groups. First, the relationship between parents and children are discussed in detail in the Pentateuch, mainly in the framework of the law of Moses. The first and one of the key words about family relationships we find in the very beginning of the Bible in the story of the creation of man. By establishing marriage as the norm of family life, the Lord speaks of a certain age of emancipation of children Continue reading