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Important to teach your child to share with others?

 

Meanie-beef, pickles, lying on the floor, no one eats. This teaser, even some 20-40-60 years ago, firmly attached to each child, which is “clamped” toy, the solution of homework or a delicious sandwich. “Are you greedy?” – contemptuous curve and we put in these words all the hostility, which was capable of our little soul. No wonder that today, seeing the greed of their children, we immediately inwardly flinch: what to do? how to wean the child to be greedy? how to teach your child to share? And still do not realize that waving his hand to the greed of a child, we deprive it of the normal base for future development and formation.

• Why children are greedy? What is the nature of the excessive greed of a child?

• Why is it important to teach the child not to be greedy, to be able to share with other toys, food, items?

• What to do if there is greed in the child? How to teach your child to share?

We grew up in a society where greed is considered a bad trait. To share with others, even the last, to give the last shirt are values that are deeply sitting in the us at the mental level. And although we all grew up, and each became a separate adult, who earns money and spends exclusively in their favor, seeing greed, especially naked, how does it happen in young Continue reading

How to motivate dad to school with your child?

Here I read a lot of different newsletters, publications, magazines on the subject of child development and healthy parenting. Everywhere a lot of information for moms. Here mom, these are great, have learned to catch everything, and a time plan, and children develop, develop themselves, etc. are All fine, but where’s the Pope? Okay, most dads – work and family, so mom could have a child/children. But they too must take part in the upbringing and development of children. Clearly, every family has their views on it and their own rules. Yes, and to work with dad-to-date prices should be very much… still, back to the main – dad needs to take part in the development of the child from birth.

The second question is how the Pope to this motivation, if he is afraid or does not want, or excuses all the time? I believe that such strong family simply can not be – adult conscious person understands that a child needs both parents equally. And find the time to half an hour a day a child to read or to Tinker with the toy, or to go for a walk is not a problem.

What to do if the Pope understands, agrees with this opinion, but still shirk their responsibilities? Start small – for example: Continue reading

Differences between a man and a woman

Woman — this is the same man, but with a different body structure? Are there any major differences between a man and a woman . What they are called? Why attempt to equate both sexes fail?

Yes, this theme on my blog has always caused a lot of controversy. I tried to compromise, long tossed from one position to another… somehow even wrote that in a woman just has to be in moderation… But now will voice an opinion, backed up by simple human logic. Why they say that women’s nature — something special? Is it just tradition, and tales of the study some psychologists? What are the main differences between a man and a woman?

The woman is different from men not only on the structure of certain organs. The whole essence of the woman — not the same as in men. And due to this the structure of some organs and the purpose of women who declared by nature.

Often hear such phrases as: «the Only difference between the woman from the man — the ability to give birth. A woman gives birth, the man — no. That’s all the difference. Otherwise we are the same people. All differences between the sexes — the imposed stereotypes, attitudes, outdated traditions».

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What to do when your child lies
If it's not quite a child who is not very difference between truth and own fiction, we should seriously enough to treat the manifestations of lies and figure out its…

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Do I Need a child to the computer
I was recently amazed one three year old little girl: when I turned on the computer and said that we should wait it in the tone of a connoisseur said:…

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I'm afraid
L. Ron Hubbard (source "Miracles for Breakfast" Ruth Minshull, p. 10) What are the fears of the child. Where do they come from? How do we, parents, when different stages…

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