Spoiled brat – spoiled by indulgence, sissy. And pampering is relevant to anyone with unwanted attention, pandering to all the desires and whims. That usually mean by spoiled? Put “spoiled” often imply a lack of manners. Meanwhile, in the interpretations, there is no word about “bad manners”. Indeed, emotional instability, whims, unwillingness to listen and hear parents, lack of autonomy, self-centeredness, inability to build relationships with other children – this is not a complete list of “symptoms” that can be called spoiled. If you look at this phenomenon broadly, we can say that spoiled children are children who have not set boundaries are. Such a child is difficult to fit into the game peers, safely pass showcase with toys or heed the words of the parents – the child has no relevant skills.
Thus, placed in one row concepts: the spoiling, pampering and rude. Accordingly, if given to the child too much attention, then definitely he will be spoiled. When building such a chain there is a substitution of concepts. What do you mean “unwanted attention”?
In his desire not to spoil the child, parents can show the wonders of ingenuity. For example, if the child is wet, and to roll over or crawl yet maybe some parents can push the baby in a dry place, and take him in her arms with this approach, Continue reading
Not a simple question. Even adults sometimes don’t hear the first time.But, maybe these adults have grown from children who have not learned to hear the first time? Try to teach this child still stands.
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It happens that the child is absorbed in play or work and really can’t hear. By the way, I when writing a text or develop a training program that is so focused on process that is totally off from reality. So I at this point have heard, you either have very very loudly to call, or to touch. The second option is nicer. Don’t like loud noises. So himself in a similar situation too, I put my hand on his shoulder, drawing attention to yourself, even a little to himself to deploy. And just making sure that I managed to be in the spotlight, beginning to speak.
Have you ever talked with a young child who really wants to tell you something important? Which is already drowning in her own words, to be able to tell you whatever is there. The child in this case is usually even fixes the adult head with both hands to hold Continue reading
Holy mystery of intimacy. Who does not wish that these minutes were clean, pleasantly sharp and significant for both. All until a certain period, different for each person, you understand that intimate relationships between the sexes, namely between spouses – something unusual and unknown, like the experience. And that is irresistibly attractive. But here the enemy was crippled hearts and thoughts, feelings and desires. We currently have unbridled perverted notion about the relationship between the sexes. The world is witnessing the corruption of evil desires, not needs. Each subsequently appears their distorted knowledge and the same distorted experience of sexual and marital relations. It is not customary to teach family and the more intimate relations – in accordance with the teachings of the Holy Scriptures, which expressed the will of the Creator.
How can we know the two that their relationship is pure and what is not. Today have lost the understanding of the purity and Holiness of the relationship. Maybe not all of it were before. But progress Continue reading