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OUR FAVORITE KIDS

 

Spoiled brat – spoiled by indulgence, sissy. And pampering is relevant to anyone with unwanted attention, pandering to all the desires and whims. That usually mean by spoiled? Put “spoiled” often imply a lack of manners. Meanwhile, in the interpretations, there is no word about “bad manners”. Indeed, emotional instability, whims, unwillingness to listen and hear parents, lack of autonomy, self-centeredness, inability to build relationships with other children – this is not a complete list of “symptoms” that can be called spoiled. If you look at this phenomenon broadly, we can say that spoiled children are children who have not set boundaries are. Such a child is difficult to fit into the game peers, safely pass showcase with toys or heed the words of the parents – the child has no relevant skills.

Thus, placed in one row concepts: the spoiling, pampering and rude. Accordingly, if given to the child too much attention, then definitely he will be spoiled. When building such a chain there is a substitution of concepts. What do you mean “unwanted attention”?

In his desire not to spoil the child, parents can show the wonders of ingenuity. For example, if the child is wet, and to roll over or crawl yet maybe some parents can push the baby in a dry place, and take him in her arms with this approach, Continue reading

How to develop independence in preschool children

 

 

The family grows the baby. How do you want us parents to become successful and happy. From early childhood we spare no expense or effort to develop his abilities. However, always achieve the expected result?

We must remember that any abilities or specific skills young children develop only in the interesting play activities.

The success of the child in different activities depends significantly on the development of his overall ability to act independently. Often, however, it is the development of the autonomy of the child is least concerned parents. And they are surprised to find that the child lags behind his peers, only when starting, for example, led him to kindergarten. With some children there is a lot of problems because they almost don’t know anything – they are used every moment of their life, from dressing and feeding, to walk and to establish contacts with other children provides adults.

These children just don’t have any experience of independent activity, and teachers have to teach them basic self-help skills and communication. Continue reading

Why do children lie?

“Our son/daughter is lying! What do we do?” is a frequent complaint of parents in the office of a child psychologist. Parents wonder why their child is lying, because in their family, this behavior is not practiced. Others simply burn with shame for their child – lie their baby becomes public property, have already learned teachers or educators. There are among parents and those who are completely deluded by their child’s behavior. They admit that they don’t know what to believe and what not.

But what would have been the reaction of parents to lie to children, the ratio is always unambiguously negative. And the question of what to do and how to wean the child to lie, to tell lies and mislead others in, is very relevant.

A psychologist come when all known methods have been tried. A request or an order “Stop lying!” the child was ignored, physical punishment does not have the desired effect, and the threats were not heeded. To understand what to do in situations when your child is cheating, let’s see, why and why he does it.

Why do children lie?

Children lying is a very common phenomenon, but in each case it’s always a unique story. However, in most cases, a lie is a consequence of the child’s problem, not the problem itself. Therefore, to defeat the lies, we must find Continue reading

Blind parental love
We begin to love their children even before their birth. Imagine what will become parents, read the smart log and listen to the advice of experienced moms. When the baby…

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The Culture of behavior in children
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How to motivate dad to school with your child?
Here I read a lot of different newsletters, publications, magazines on the subject of child development and healthy parenting. Everywhere a lot of information for moms. Here mom, these are…

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