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The Technique How to help your child

Many kids are afraid of something, someone… How do these constant fears that are the basis for many life.

“… Come grey little wolf and bite at the flank,” the mother sings a lullaby, and then is surprised when he hears from a child :”I’m scared!”. Together, let us understand, what are the causes of fear from our children and how to deal with them.

In the first place . children learn fears from us, parents. If mom is afraid of dogs, there’s a very high chance that the child will be afraid of them. The same applies to fear of thunderstorm and lots more. The children of anxious mothers, ready all around to see the potential danger for your kid grow up to be ultra-cautious and fearful. And all because at every step mum warns: “Caution! Machine! Attention! Dog! Caution. “And the child becomes accustomed to living in anxiety, subconsciously, all the time expecting some danger.

Secondly . children’s fears and generates excessive parental care. The child growing in greenhouse conditions, it’s very difficult to adjust to life without “protective suit”, and he is everywhere begin to haunt danger, and on this basis, there are fears. Continue reading

Y. B. Gippenreiter To communicate with a child – Like?

The first edition of this book quickly sold out, which confirmed the great need of our readers in the acquisition of knowledge and practical skills to help you better communicate with children.

Admire the exceptional willingness of people to work seriously to create psychological well-being of their children and families, despite the economic upheavals and stresses of our modern life. Specialists of the “helping professions” — practical psychologists, psychotherapists, social workers and teachers — which now is growing fast become an indispensable part of this process.

The author was nice and important to receive wonderful feedback on the usefulness of books from different circles of readers — parents and teachers referred to professionals working with families and children, teachers, training of these professionals, and even (which was especially a pleasant surprise) by the teenagers.

The positive reception of the book was forced to continue to think over its contents: what else would be useful to include?

Some Continue reading

Why lie to our children?

Parents notice the tendency of children to lie very early, almost from the moment the child begins to speak, the doctor said. However, young children often harmless lie: an exaggeration, easy boasting or just making up, which are known to be true are not. Those things parents often don’t pay attention. “And rightly so,” – says A. Ippolitov.

As for imagination, a child can even support in these endeavors, dream up together. “Children’s imaginations develop imagination, sense of humor, and abstract thinking – the qualities in adult life a person can simply divide”.

Baby brag too need to communicate with their peers.

– Well, that remains to do for the child, if all peers start around the eternal game on “And at us in apartment gas, and you?”. Willy-nilly, or FIB, or look in the eyes of peers “black sheep” – a “loser”, as they say now.

According to the doctor, parents of children aged 2 to 5 years of age is often mistaken for a lie that really is not – say, if a child brings home someone else’s toy and says that the boy Kolya he gave Continue reading

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