Discussion of games, toys, techniques, devoted several posts, even attached. But there is no discussion of computer games.
The son of a few months playing at the computer. Initially, the games were held my rigid censorship, then it was an omission, when it played in everything, himself, now, again, censorship is installed.
I thought, and this was confirmed by later observations, some games do more good than harm, of course, on the precondition that the computer is not a substitute for everyday leisure, festivals, games with their parents.
In my opinion, a computer game is a wonderful addition to our life (at home) when the child has the urge to act . but there is no opportunity to repeat the activity of the parent (e.g., mother sews on the sewing machine). The parent has no time clock to take the child with interesting games and tasks that call for perseverance, and interesting, for self-employment to the child of early age – very few (I almost never find them).
I tried to make a rough selection criteria games.
1. The complete absence of “nervousness” – all sorts of shouts, screams, the inadequate response of the characters Continue reading
We begin to love their children even before their birth. Imagine what will become parents, read the smart log and listen to the advice of experienced moms. When the baby is born, the love for him increases many times. And in return we expect the same. They say that love is never too much. And here it happens. How not to “perlubie” of the child and not to spoil the excessive love of the little man?
It happens that the child becomes the raison d’être of his parents. To some extent it should be, after all, giving birth to the baby, you have taken responsibility for his life and destiny. He is a bad parent who care for their duties, impulsive in matters of education and relies on others or nature: “something will grow!”.
Yes only has dire consequences, and at the other extreme sacrifice. The mother puts on the family altar their lives, sacrifice their children’s interests. Her motives are noble: “My child needs to have everything that wasn’t from me, I will put as much of his love and attention, so he was happy.” But, a mother’s sacrifice is the basis of the neurotic state of deep depression and inability to make right accents.
Giving Continue reading
A lot has been said and written about parental love. The best kind of love is recognized as unconditional love for your child. This is an example of God’s love on Earth. Very often use this metaphor: God’s love for the world, unconditional love of the father and mother to child. Those who find it difficult to comprehend the concept of “love of God”, it is possible to imagine a vast ocean, which washes the shore always, whatever the weather, time of day and time of year. Similarly unconditional love is always present in the heart of mothers and fathers. The question is, can I, as a parent, to give this love?
Unconditional love is love without conditions – is an art. Everyone knows that any art would not exist without the necessary knowledge, skills and acquired skills, effort and frequent workouts. One day, deciding to become parents, we allow unconditional love to conquer our nature. The ability to love unconditionally, like nothing else in this world, needs careful conservation and sustained development. The source of parental love is the soul and the inherent impulses of emotions and feelings. As classic said: “the Soul is obliged to work hard all day and night, day and night.” It’s true: to love means to be willing to exhausting domestic Continue reading