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Unconditional love?

i“Blizzard” is about unconditional love, as if, once again coming into fashion, depriving the rest of particularly sensitive and sverkhsvetovykh moms.

My idea is not original, but not universally. It is that unconditional love, most likely, does not exist. If a person is able to love unconditionally, then it is either Holy (without irony!), or just prone to self-deception. In the first case I would like this person to meet and become his apprentice. True! I really want to achieve the degree of enlightenment, when you know how to love. But such people I have not seen. I suspect that they do not. But from time to time meet somebody declares the importance of such love and denounces all, it is capable of.Oddly enough, most often the sounding nonsense broadcast psychologists or educators, or – especially – teachers-psychologists. And suffer from it, most often they are the same. And their children.

Why suffer? Because, trying to hide herself from unwanted feelings (type of hatred for the child), the mother becomes tense, unnatural and disturbing. The child feels unmistakably that something was wrong, but because feelings are not named and not defined by the mother, the child cannot understand what is happening, but feels anxiety. His own anger and rage regarding unsatisfactory relationship with her mother nowhere to place because the mother is unable to containerwith them. Guilt (autoaggressive), Continue reading

Differences between a man and a woman

Woman — this is the same man, but with a different body structure? Are there any major differences between a man and a woman . What they are called? Why attempt to equate both sexes fail?

Yes, this theme on my blog has always caused a lot of controversy. I tried to compromise, long tossed from one position to another… somehow even wrote that in a woman just has to be in moderation… But now will voice an opinion, backed up by simple human logic. Why they say that women’s nature — something special? Is it just tradition, and tales of the study some psychologists? What are the main differences between a man and a woman?

The woman is different from men not only on the structure of certain organs. The whole essence of the woman — not the same as in men. And due to this the structure of some organs and the purpose of women who declared by nature.

Often hear such phrases as: «the Only difference between the woman from the man — the ability to give birth. A woman gives birth, the man — no. That’s all the difference. Otherwise we are the same people. All differences between the sexes — the imposed stereotypes, attitudes, outdated traditions».

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Advice to parents about the labor education children
How to teach a child to work? Advice to parents about the labor education of children ▪ The attitude of the child to work to the greatest extent depends on…

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The Culture of behavior in children
  Culture is a broad concept that reveals the essence of moral standards in relation to people, to nature, to work, to objects of material and spiritual culture and, of…

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Break
  "Temporary separation strengthens the relationship", I think you have heard it said? But is this true? In fact, the breakup only helps to better appreciate and understand the depth…

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