Your newborn baby is crying – you pick him up. He is hungry – you feed him. He has a wet diaper – you change. You will certainly meet his every need. To care for the baby and so very difficult, and of course, nurture your baby too early, right? But soon the child becomes wiser, and his needs are transformed into desires, and you understand that it would not hurt to set some boundaries.
How many times per day you patiently pick up from the floor and thrown a pacifier, a toy or an overturned bowl of porridge?
We know what you’re thinking: 1 or 2 years ’ s too early to punish the child. That kind of attitude is a stumbling block. Because education – this is not the only punishment. This training and instruction, which can and should start from an early age.
Limitations – an important part of your parental duty. You help the child understand what is good and what is bad, follow the rules and deal with disappointments. Of course, we all know that a child who is “bad behavior”, do not do this on purpose. When the child breaks your points, he’s only doing what instinct tells him ” explores the outside world. Continue reading
Discussion of games, toys, techniques, devoted several posts, even attached. But there is no discussion of computer games.
The son of a few months playing at the computer. Initially, the games were held my rigid censorship, then it was an omission, when it played in everything, himself, now, again, censorship is installed.
I thought, and this was confirmed by later observations, some games do more good than harm, of course, on the precondition that the computer is not a substitute for everyday leisure, festivals, games with their parents.
In my opinion, a computer game is a wonderful addition to our life (at home) when the child has the urge to act . but there is no opportunity to repeat the activity of the parent (e.g., mother sews on the sewing machine). The parent has no time clock to take the child with interesting games and tasks that call for perseverance, and interesting, for self-employment to the child of early age – very few (I almost never find them).
I tried to make a rough selection criteria games.
1. The complete absence of “nervousness” – all sorts of shouts, screams, the inadequate response of the characters Continue reading
Parents notice the tendency of children to lie very early, almost from the moment the child begins to speak, the doctor said. However, young children often harmless lie: an exaggeration, easy boasting or just making up, which are known to be true are not. Those things parents often don’t pay attention. “And rightly so,” – says A. Ippolitov.
As for imagination, a child can even support in these endeavors, dream up together. “Children’s imaginations develop imagination, sense of humor, and abstract thinking – the qualities in adult life a person can simply divide”.
Baby brag too need to communicate with their peers.
– Well, that remains to do for the child, if all peers start around the eternal game on “And at us in apartment gas, and you?”. Willy-nilly, or FIB, or look in the eyes of peers “black sheep” – a “loser”, as they say now.
According to the doctor, parents of children aged 2 to 5 years of age is often mistaken for a lie that really is not – say, if a child brings home someone else’s toy and says that the boy Kolya he gave Continue reading