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Unconditional love?

i“Blizzard” is about unconditional love, as if, once again coming into fashion, depriving the rest of particularly sensitive and sverkhsvetovykh moms.

My idea is not original, but not universally. It is that unconditional love, most likely, does not exist. If a person is able to love unconditionally, then it is either Holy (without irony!), or just prone to self-deception. In the first case I would like this person to meet and become his apprentice. True! I really want to achieve the degree of enlightenment, when you know how to love. But such people I have not seen. I suspect that they do not. But from time to time meet somebody declares the importance of such love and denounces all, it is capable of.Oddly enough, most often the sounding nonsense broadcast psychologists or educators, or – especially – teachers-psychologists. And suffer from it, most often they are the same. And their children.

Why suffer? Because, trying to hide herself from unwanted feelings (type of hatred for the child), the mother becomes tense, unnatural and disturbing. The child feels unmistakably that something was wrong, but because feelings are not named and not defined by the mother, the child cannot understand what is happening, but feels anxiety. His own anger and rage regarding unsatisfactory relationship with her mother nowhere to place because the mother is unable to containerwith them. Guilt (autoaggressive), Continue reading

When should you start to raise a child?

Your newborn baby is crying – you pick him up. He is hungry – you feed him. He has a wet diaper – you change. You will certainly meet his every need. To care for the baby and so very difficult, and of course, nurture your baby too early, right? But soon the child becomes wiser, and his needs are transformed into desires, and you understand that it would not hurt to set some boundaries.

How many times per day you patiently pick up from the floor and thrown a pacifier, a toy or an overturned bowl of porridge?

We know what you’re thinking: 1 or 2 years ’ s too early to punish the child. That kind of attitude is a stumbling block. Because education – this is not the only punishment. This training and instruction, which can and should start from an early age.

Limitations – an important part of your parental duty. You help the child understand what is good and what is bad, follow the rules and deal with disappointments. Of course, we all know that a child who is “bad behavior”, do not do this on purpose. When the child breaks your points, he’s only doing what instinct tells him ” explores the outside world. Continue reading

What the Bible

 

 

Holy mystery of intimacy. Who does not wish that these minutes were clean, pleasantly sharp and significant for both. All until a certain period, different for each person, you understand that intimate relationships between the sexes, namely between spouses – something unusual and unknown, like the experience. And that is irresistibly attractive. But here the enemy was crippled hearts and thoughts, feelings and desires. We currently have unbridled perverted notion about the relationship between the sexes. The world is witnessing the corruption of evil desires, not needs. Each subsequently appears their distorted knowledge and the same distorted experience of sexual and marital relations. It is not customary to teach family and the more intimate relations – in accordance with the teachings of the Holy Scriptures, which expressed the will of the Creator.

How can we know the two that their relationship is pure and what is not. Today have lost the understanding of the purity and Holiness of the relationship. Maybe not all of it were before. But progress Continue reading

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How to raise a child, raising children
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Advice to parents about the labor education children
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