Teach your son to put into words what he feels. The kid can scream in frustration, to hide from embarrassment, biting excitement and crying from fear. Explain to him that it is emotions that tell the body how to behave. Show him other people who feel the same, but Express their emotions differently. Talk with your child about your own emotions. When he one day will grow, you will know the difference between rage and embarrassment, disappointment and grief, and learn to cope with their emotions and Express them intelligently, without shame and without guilt.
Papa will teach him the most important things. If you let dad be immersed in the process of raising a child from the very beginning, ever the son formed the correct opinion: his dad knows EVERYTHING. You will always be loved by his mother, but daddy for boy is a special man who knows the answers to all the questions.Make it so that the boy talked more in men’s element! If he had little contact with his father, he goes to training or in groups where the teacher is male.
Read to him and with him. Children become readers on the lap of their parents. The child needs to see that you also read. Tell him about what you read. About their favorite books and characters. Explain to him why it is so important to read books. And read together and then Continue reading
“The victims he chose from among the children who are alone walking on the street or were in the wilderness. The attacker approached him, turning under the pretext – to the streets, the location of which he allegedly did not know.”
In another case, the lost boy could not learn how to get him to the bus stop, as he met on the way the students just ran away from him without explanation.
This information from news feeds shows us one of the issues of the day: “does the child Have to help strangers?”. It is my opinion.
The child SHOULD NOT help strangers. BUT it CAN be done most carefully and tentatively ensuring their OWN SECURITY.
What might it look like in practice? In the first case, the man asks the child to show the way to the street of Lenin, and almost every city has such a street. The child, for example, knows how to this street pass.
But his first reaction should be as follows: assessment of the situation, retreat to a safe distance (2 meters), ending the conversation and leaving in a safe place. We talked about this in the article, Continue reading