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Unconditional love?

i“Blizzard” is about unconditional love, as if, once again coming into fashion, depriving the rest of particularly sensitive and sverkhsvetovykh moms.

My idea is not original, but not universally. It is that unconditional love, most likely, does not exist. If a person is able to love unconditionally, then it is either Holy (without irony!), or just prone to self-deception. In the first case I would like this person to meet and become his apprentice. True! I really want to achieve the degree of enlightenment, when you know how to love. But such people I have not seen. I suspect that they do not. But from time to time meet somebody declares the importance of such love and denounces all, it is capable of.Oddly enough, most often the sounding nonsense broadcast psychologists or educators, or – especially – teachers-psychologists. And suffer from it, most often they are the same. And their children.

Why suffer? Because, trying to hide herself from unwanted feelings (type of hatred for the child), the mother becomes tense, unnatural and disturbing. The child feels unmistakably that something was wrong, but because feelings are not named and not defined by the mother, the child cannot understand what is happening, but feels anxiety. His own anger and rage regarding unsatisfactory relationship with her mother nowhere to place because the mother is unable to containerwith them. Guilt (autoaggressive), Continue reading

When should you start to raise a child?

Your newborn baby is crying – you pick him up. He is hungry – you feed him. He has a wet diaper – you change. You will certainly meet his every need. To care for the baby and so very difficult, and of course, nurture your baby too early, right? But soon the child becomes wiser, and his needs are transformed into desires, and you understand that it would not hurt to set some boundaries.

How many times per day you patiently pick up from the floor and thrown a pacifier, a toy or an overturned bowl of porridge?

We know what you’re thinking: 1 or 2 years ’ s too early to punish the child. That kind of attitude is a stumbling block. Because education – this is not the only punishment. This training and instruction, which can and should start from an early age.

Limitations – an important part of your parental duty. You help the child understand what is good and what is bad, follow the rules and deal with disappointments. Of course, we all know that a child who is “bad behavior”, do not do this on purpose. When the child breaks your points, he’s only doing what instinct tells him ” explores the outside world. Continue reading

What terrible punishment strap?

 

Who a child’s parents are not thrashed with a belt, hand, or actually what is necessary? Answer honestly — yourself hand on heart. I won’t lie — I was “educated”.

Do You know what is the impact of parental physical and psychological punishment on the child for his future life?

Let’s look at why you can’t punish the child, even if you really want and it seems that other methods of education?

Just note that the punishment of children the child with a belt and beaten — so-called “spanking” is not the worst thing that children.

The worst punishment for kids is not physical but psychological.

But let us all in order.

What parents crave, punishing his supposedly beloved child so violent methods — spanking spanking, ignoring, angry shouts, dirty abuse, blackmail on the principle of “If you don’t. I don’t know what you’ll do!”?

Many parents openly mock the bodies and souls of their children and this process is called harmonious word “Education”. And raise their crumbs dads and moms who can’t control their emotions, and selflessly like otygryval little butt for all the failures and defeats in life.

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The Technique How to help your child
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The Musical development of preschool children
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Important to teach your child to share with others?
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